For married couples. Guided by Christian faith.

Freedom is possible.
Healing is, too.

Break free from porn. Rebuild trust. Feel close again. Our 30-day program helps married couples move toward freedom and a stronger, more connected marriage.

Your wife doesn’t know yet? You can start the conversation individually.

Not ready for a call? Explore our approach first ↓
Emmanuel and Bekah Guarino, founders of Team Vulnerable
“We found freedom and healing.
You can, too.”

EMMANUEL & BEKAH GUARINO · FOUNDERS

Real people. Real marriages.
A new chapter is possible.

850+people
helped
25+countries
reached
30days of
guided action
Meet Emmanuel & Bekah

We know both sides
of this story.

We know what it’s like when porn brings hurt, secrecy, and distance into a marriage. We faced it together, and we’re here to help you find a way forward.

EMMANUEL / CO-FOUNDER

Life looked good.
I was still hiding.

For nearly 15 years, I kept promising myself I’d stop. Success didn’t fix it. Marriage didn’t fix it. Things began to change when I took responsibility and asked Bekah for help.

Watch Emmanuel’s full story on YouTube ↗
BEKAH / CO-FOUNDER & WIVES COACH

I understood the struggle.
I was still hurting.

I understood his struggle, but I still felt hurt and alone. I wanted to support him, yet I needed support too. That’s why helping wives find their own voice and healing matters so much to me.

Watch Bekah’s full story on YouTube ↗

His recovery was his responsibility. Her pain deserved space. Learning to work together meant making room for both.

How that shaped our approach ↓
The Team Vulnerable approach

Freedom for him.
Healing for both of you.

Imagine being present with your family, honest with each other, and hopeful about your future. That’s the life we’re here to help you build.

01 / FREEDOM FROM PORN

Leave the hiding behind.

Move beyond the cycle of promises, secrecy, and shame. Face hard days without turning back to porn—and live in line with the man you want to be.

Understand what keeps pulling you back and learn how to respond differently.
02 / TRUST & HEALING

Give her reasons to believe again.

Let consistent actions speak louder than another promise. Help her feel heard, valued, and supported as you work to rebuild trust.

Learn how to talk honestly, listen to her hurt, and follow through.
03 / A STRONGER MARRIAGE

Feel close again.

Rediscover laughter, affection, and intimacy. Build a marriage where you feel wanted, connected, and ready to face life together.

Create space for real connection in the everyday moments you share.
For the wife who is hurting

You deserve to feel loved.
And to be heard.

You deserve a marriage where you feel chosen, valued, and secure. His choices were never a measure of your worth, and fixing him is not your responsibility.

Bekah’s guidance helps you make sense of the hurt, express what you need, and find support for your own healing—while he takes responsibility for change.

Explore the seven steps

A structured path from bringing the struggle into the open to building a life that supports lasting change.

01Admit the problem & confide in your spouse

Bring the struggle into honest conversation. Learn to communicate daily about feelings and needs, rather than only asking whether a slip happened.

02Clean house

Review devices, apps, and easy access points. Put safeguards in place to interrupt the impulse and create time for a different choice.

03Handle the root cause

Notice patterns such as stress, loneliness, boredom, or low self-worth. Practice naming what you need and responding more constructively.

04Fight as a team

Work toward conversations where you feel heard instead of defensive, and intimacy built on connection rather than pressure. Guided discussions help you practice together.

05Understand addiction

Learn how patterns and triggers develop, and practice ways to respond when temptation shows up.

06The truth behind the fantasy

Examine the expectations pornography creates and refocus intimacy on love, connection, and real people.

07Create a lifestyle for freedom

Create routines, relationships, and meaningful activities that support the life you want to keep living.

How we help you get there

A clear path forward.
Support along the way.

You don’t have to figure out what to do next on your own. Follow a 30-day program together, with three months of email support as you put change into practice.

01

Watch a lesson togetherUnderstand what’s keeping you stuck and what you can do differently.

02

Put it into practiceFollow the exercise or conversation guide, then apply it to your everyday life.

03

Get help as you goEmail us your questions for three months. Keep building the habits beyond the course.

Plan time daily for the lessons and exercises. Deeper conversations may need longer. Healing continues at your own pace.

Start with a free Freedom Call ↓
Your commitment matters

Do the work.
We’ll stand behind it.

Complete the program and exercises. If the course isn’t for you, you can request a full refund.

How it works: Complete the program and all exercises, then both spouses must email us within 30 days to request a refund. We’ll explain the requirements before you enroll.

The Freedom Call is free. Before you enroll, we’ll explain the paid program and the full refund requirements.

Take a look. Take your time.

Understand the approach
before you book.

See how our approach works in a video. No signup required.

A teammate. Practical safeguards. A life built for freedom.

Watch the full video on YouTube ↗
Their stories

Hope sounds different
when you’ve lived it.

Watch Mason & Miranda’s full conversation on YouTube ↗
“Our conversations have become so much easier.”

Hear how daily conversations helped them feel more connected as they worked through the program.

Hear more experiences in our testimonial highlight reel (2:45).

“This is the most change I’ve seen in myself, maybe ever.”
Mason · Program participant
“So many of the things I was searching for ... the connection, the communication, the openness, the honesty.”
Miranda · Program participant
“Now we laugh, love, and talk to one another like we did when we first met.”
Lauren & Matthew · Program participants
“You gave me back my ability to make my own choices, and I can’t thank you enough for that.”
David · Program participant
“You can rebuild it. You can rebuild something so much better.”
Hannah · Program participant
“He actually is able to hear me now. ... Those are words that I’ve been waiting to hear for 13 years.”
Rachel · Program participant

Individual experiences vary. These are personal accounts, not a promise of a particular outcome.

Conversations beyond our own community

We’ve shared our story on

Hear Emmanuel and Bekah speak about freedom, faith, and rebuilding trust.

Our faith. Our convictions. Our hope for you.

We believe.

In freedom. In healing. In what God can do through your story.

True freedom is possible.

You don’t have to struggle with porn forever. Wives can find freedom from resentment and anger, too. We believe lasting change and healing are possible for both of you.

Your marriage can grow stronger.

This crisis can become an opportunity for deeper connection and intimacy. We believe you can build a marriage that is more honest, more connected, and stronger than before.

Vulnerability is strength.

Being open and asking for help is one of the most courageous things a husband can do. Honesty opens the door to connection and healing.

Your wife is your best teammate.

She is deeply invested in you and your future together. This is about more than quitting porn—it’s about growing your connection. That begins by bringing the struggle out of the dark.

— Emmanuel & Bekah

Your free Freedom Call

What are you
saying yes to?

A free, private Zoom conversation to understand your situation and explore our paid program. You can ask questions before deciding whether to enroll.

01 / Your situation

We listen first.

Share what’s happening, what you’ve tried, and what each of you hopes will change.

02 / Your questions

We explain the options.

Understand the lessons, time commitment, email support, total investment, and refund requirements.

03 / Your decision

You choose your next step.

Ask what matters to you. Decide whether the program fits. There’s no obligation to enroll.

If your spouse knows

Please book a time you can both attend, so each of you can share your perspective and ask questions.

If your spouse doesn’t know yet

You can start individually. We’ll help you prepare for an honest conversation and bring her a clear path forward.

About the investment

The program is a paid investment in your marriage. We’ll discuss your circumstances and available options on the call.

It’s okay to have questions

Let’s talk about what’s on your mind.

You don’t need to have it all figured out before reaching out.

What happens on a Freedom Call?

It’s a free, private Zoom conversation. We’ll hear your story, understand what you’re hoping to change, and explore whether Team Vulnerable is the right fit. If it is, we’ll explain the paid program, the investment, and available options. There’s no obligation to enroll.

Does my spouse need to join the call?

If your wife knows about the issue, please attend together so you can both hear the plan, ask questions, and decide if it’s right for your marriage. If she doesn’t know yet, you’re welcome to begin the conversation individually. If you make financial decisions together, choose a time when you can both attend.

Will my wife have to become the “porn police”?

No. The husband is responsible for his choices and his recovery. Practical safeguards can help slow impulsive decisions, but rebuilding trust also takes honesty, consistent action, and healthy boundaries. Being teammates doesn’t mean putting the responsibility for his behavior on her.

How much time should we set aside?

Plan time each day for lessons and exercises, plus conversations with each other. Some reflection and listening exercises need a longer, uninterrupted session. We’ll explain the commitment on your call so you can plan realistically.

What support do we get beyond the lessons?

You receive unlimited email support from Team Vulnerable for three months to ask questions as you put the material into practice. The program also guides you in choosing outside accountability and support. On-demand one-on-one calls are not part of the standard program.

How is this different from asking AI or reading a book?

You get a structured program to work through together, guided exercises for both partners, and three months of email support from people who know the material and have lived through this in their own marriage. The value comes from applying the work and asking for help along the way.

What if we’ve already tried other things?

Many couples come to us after trying to handle this on their own. We focus on the patterns behind the behavior and the relationship hurt that can remain even when porn use stops. On your call, we’ll talk honestly about what you’ve tried and whether our approach fits your needs.

What happens after the 30 days?

Keep practicing what you’ve learned. The program recommends daily check-ins for the first 90 days, and includes unlimited email support for three months. Healing and rebuilding trust follow individual timelines; completing the course is a starting point for ongoing change.

How much does the program cost?

Our Freedom Call is free, and the program is a paid coaching experience. If we believe we’re a good fit, we’ll explain what’s included and the investment. Every family’s situation is different, so we can discuss your circumstances and available options. There’s no obligation to enroll on the call.

Is there a refund policy?

Yes. If you complete the entire program and all exercises and decide the course isn’t for you, both spouses must email us within 30 days to request a full refund. We’ll explain the requirements before you enroll.

Is there a referral program?

Yes. If you join and someone you refer enrolls, you receive 25% of the amount that person invests. We can explain the referral program on your Freedom Call.

What happens to the information I share?

You can explore this page and watch the videos without completing a contact form. Scheduling opens Calendly, where you provide your booking details; playing a video connects to YouTube. Before sharing sensitive details, you’re welcome to ask us how your information will be handled.

Is this Christian counseling?

Our approach is guided by Christian faith and our lived experience. Team Vulnerable is an educational coaching program, not licensed therapy. We can discuss fit on your call, including whether other professional support may be appropriate.

Your next chapter starts here

You don’t have to figure this out alone.

Freedom from porn is possible. Healing and a stronger marriage are possible, too. Let’s talk about your next step.

Private Zoom conversation. No obligation to enroll.

Your Free
Freedom Call

This is a private Zoom conversation where we’ll hear your story, understand what you’re hoping to change, and explore whether Team Vulnerable is the right fit.

Our program is a paid coaching experience and a significant investment in your marriage. If we’re a good fit, we’ll explain the total cost, what’s included, and available options before you make any decision. There’s no obligation to enroll.

If your spouse knows, please choose a time you can attend together. If your spouse doesn’t know yet, you’re welcome to begin individually.

Choose a time on Calendly ↗

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